Comments on: Plenty of Fish Down http://www.thespreadit.com/plenty-of-fish-down-5020/ News And Opinion. Mon, 21 May 2012 23:55:08 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.2 By: stephen lamar http://www.thespreadit.com/plenty-of-fish-down-5020/#comment-59828 stephen lamar Tue, 03 Jan 2012 21:20:11 +0000 http://www.thespreadit.com/?p=5020#comment-59828 I've been on that site for years and its almost like I'm invisible, it's making me wonder if you women know what you really want or if us men that have big hearts are destined to be single for the rest of our lives I’ve been on that site for years and its almost like I’m invisible, it’s making me wonder if you women know what you really want or if us men that have big hearts are destined to be single for the rest of our lives

]]> By: JRR http://www.thespreadit.com/plenty-of-fish-down-5020/#comment-18141 JRR Wed, 18 Aug 2010 23:19:31 +0000 http://www.thespreadit.com/?p=5020#comment-18141 I happen to know an unattractive, over-weight woman who found love on POF, so eat your heart out you mean people. If you haven't learned that love is more than skin deep, its probably the reason you're still single! We all grow old, too, so we're all gonna get ugly at some point. Best to find love in who a person is, rather than their "youthful beauty". I can speak for myself, as I've been married over 30 years (was once attractive, now just...middle age and paunchy. (I'm currently helping a friend navigate POF and providing an extra set of objective eyes to help keep her safe). Hope you all find what you're looking for! I happen to know an unattractive, over-weight woman who found love on POF, so eat your heart out you mean people. If you haven’t learned that love is more than skin deep, its probably the reason you’re still single! We all grow old, too, so we’re all gonna get ugly at some point. Best to find love in who a person is, rather than their “youthful beauty”. I can speak for myself, as I’ve been married over 30 years (was once attractive, now just…middle age and paunchy. (I’m currently helping a friend navigate POF and providing an extra set of objective eyes to help keep her safe). Hope you all find what you’re looking for!

]]> By: JH http://www.thespreadit.com/plenty-of-fish-down-5020/#comment-17850 JH Wed, 11 Aug 2010 20:56:27 +0000 http://www.thespreadit.com/?p=5020#comment-17850 Glad to hear the site is back up. I think POF is, indeed, great in the sense that it's free, has a LOT of users, and a lot of opportunities. It's more of a casual dating source, and can't be approached with the same expectations as a high-end matchmaker (which is where you'd go to stop dating and find an actual soulmate). Case in point I have friends who've used POF successfully and friends who've used old school executive matchmakers like Richard Easton with great success. The difference is that the success rate w/ matchmakers is higher, and you succeed quicker. But like Sammy says, "if I’m going to be rejected, I’d rather not have to pay for it." So true. Glad to hear the site is back up. I think POF is, indeed, great in the sense that it’s free, has a LOT of users, and a lot of opportunities. It’s more of a casual dating source, and can’t be approached with the same expectations as a high-end matchmaker (which is where you’d go to stop dating and find an actual soulmate). Case in point I have friends who’ve used POF successfully and friends who’ve used old school executive matchmakers like Richard Easton with great success. The difference is that the success rate w/ matchmakers is higher, and you succeed quicker. But like Sammy says, “if I’m going to be rejected, I’d rather not have to pay for it.” So true.

]]> By: Chuck http://www.thespreadit.com/plenty-of-fish-down-5020/#comment-17829 Chuck Wed, 11 Aug 2010 14:56:18 +0000 http://www.thespreadit.com/?p=5020#comment-17829 I have met some pretty hot and wild women on this website. You just have to be persistent and be different. The guy who runs this site earns $300K a month in adsense money, so it's a brilliant idea. I have met some pretty hot and wild women on this website. You just have to be persistent and be different. The guy who runs this site earns $300K a month in adsense money, so it’s a brilliant idea.

]]> By: Ruby http://www.thespreadit.com/plenty-of-fish-down-5020/#comment-17785 Ruby Tue, 10 Aug 2010 21:31:54 +0000 http://www.thespreadit.com/?p=5020#comment-17785 You find what you attract... there are some really nice guys on this site, and some real doozies. You don't have to kiss every frog you meet... some of them just stay frogs. But I've gotten some wonderful dates off of those pages. keep the faith You find what you attract… there are some really nice guys on this site, and some real doozies. You don’t have to kiss every frog you meet… some of them just stay frogs.
But I’ve gotten some wonderful dates off of those pages.

keep the faith

]]> By: mem http://www.thespreadit.com/plenty-of-fish-down-5020/#comment-17735 mem Tue, 10 Aug 2010 09:08:39 +0000 http://www.thespreadit.com/?p=5020#comment-17735 Site went back up at approximately 11:30 PM PST. Site went back up at approximately 11:30 PM PST.

]]> By: Rocroad http://www.thespreadit.com/plenty-of-fish-down-5020/#comment-17732 Rocroad Tue, 10 Aug 2010 07:23:29 +0000 http://www.thespreadit.com/?p=5020#comment-17732 For got sake people get a life! There are arshole's, wankers, beautiful people and not so beautiful people everywhere, you telling me you've never fallen for an idiot that you didn't meet online! Of course people will lie and use fake profiles but Christ most people you meet in a club do the very same thing! Use your noddle and filter out the idiots! It ain't called meet your Pamela Anderson! It's a site full of everyday people, good and bad! For got sake people get a life! There are arshole’s, wankers, beautiful people and not so beautiful people everywhere, you telling me you’ve never fallen for an idiot that you didn’t meet online! Of course people will lie and use fake profiles but Christ most people you meet in a club do the very same thing! Use your noddle and filter out the idiots! It ain’t called meet your Pamela Anderson! It’s a site full of everyday people, good and bad!

]]> By: Sammy http://www.thespreadit.com/plenty-of-fish-down-5020/#comment-17731 Sammy Tue, 10 Aug 2010 07:18:08 +0000 http://www.thespreadit.com/?p=5020#comment-17731 The key word here is, F R E E. Like it or not, you cant beat the price. If I'm going to be rejected, I'd rather not have to pay for it. And who cares if "free" doesn't match you on 27 levels of compatibility. You need to do some of the work yourself. People are just as capable of lying on the pay sites as they are on the free sites. Practice "catch and release" while fishing on Plenty of fish, if you dont find a keeper. And you're not going to know if you have a keeper until you reel a few in. The key word here is, F R E E.
Like it or not, you cant beat the price. If I’m going to be rejected, I’d rather not have to pay for it.
And who cares if “free” doesn’t match you on 27 levels of compatibility. You need to do some of the work yourself. People are just as capable of lying on the pay sites as they are on the free sites. Practice “catch and release” while fishing on Plenty of fish, if you dont find a keeper. And you’re not going to know if you have a keeper until you reel a few in.

]]> By: bob http://www.thespreadit.com/plenty-of-fish-down-5020/#comment-17728 bob Tue, 10 Aug 2010 06:18:24 +0000 http://www.thespreadit.com/?p=5020#comment-17728 Not been using POF long and have prob messaged abt 7 ladies . Have some nice chats with nearly all of them( not smutty ) . I've met one lady so far and she was a lovely person who, while probably isn,t "the one" is someone i'm going to be happy to have as a friend . Hope the site is back up soon . It's a great way to meet new friends . Not been using POF long and have prob messaged abt 7 ladies . Have some nice chats with nearly all of them( not smutty ) . I’ve met one lady so far and she was a lovely person who, while probably isn,t “the one” is someone i’m going to be happy to have as a friend . Hope the site is back up soon . It’s a great way to meet new friends .

]]> By: HowSo? http://www.thespreadit.com/plenty-of-fish-down-5020/#comment-17724 HowSo? Tue, 10 Aug 2010 05:43:38 +0000 http://www.thespreadit.com/?p=5020#comment-17724 Are you saying the site is racist? How so? I'm a lady of color and have used the site so, your comment really interested me. Maybe I shouldn't use this site. Are you saying the site is racist? How so? I’m a lady of color and have used the site so, your comment really interested me. Maybe I shouldn’t use this site.

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